I was asked how do u know if ur in love with some one. Well i cant answer that for everyone but what i can do is answer for myself and how i know im in live with someone! I know because my wanting them turns into a needing them i put their needs before mine. Now i was also asked where do separate being in love with someone to them just being able t…o understand and to me that simple. If u have a child their is no way u should put their need needs aside to please any man! Now if u have a man that cant understand that then maybe u should question if he’s in love with u!?